Naheed Inspires is a series of inspiring articles by NLP coach - Naheed Khan, as an endeavour to motivate you, and guide you on your journey of life goals and positive living.
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It's new year’s eve and we notice everyone starts talking about resolutions.
The excitement lives on and for days we see people doing all that which they have resolved they will.
However, as days pass into the next month, the resolution loses it’s steam.
Few months passes by, the resolution is lost completely.
Have you been one of them who decided to have a list of to-do in the new year and then somehow those things became lost in the hustle bustle of life?
The fact is it’s more of a trend today, the thing to do on new years.
The purpose may not be something which has an association with any deep rooted belief or your dreams, and hence they lose their significance. Because they are not important in your goals or milestones for the year.
So, just take a few minutes and reflect on these two questions with respect to your new year resolution.
Our mind thinks in images. So when you speak you see images in your head. Most of the times you are not even conscious of this.
So, if you give yourself an image of “losing something”, it’s not what your mind is programmed to do. Remember since your childhood, all you have been programmed with is “not to lose”.
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If you are focussed on achieving something, then where do the achievements fit into your dreams, your life goals, and how important are they in your big picture?
So, if you are one of them who likes to set resolutions at the beginning of the year, let’s try it a bit differently this year.
Whatever be your focus this year, whatever be your resolution, give it a bigger purpose in your life. Make it’s existence important. Make it about something that the very thought of achieving it gives you joy and fills you with excitement.
And most importantly, do it because “you want to” and not because “you think you would want to”.
Don’t follow the trend. Create your own.